A person cannot change unless they choose to. A person cannot grow unless they choose to. It has taken me a long time to realise that in this life. Change comes from within. You can’t make someone do it. You can’t wait around hoping that they will. You can only hope in life to connect with people who are on the same page as you. People who will accept you for who you are. Love is the one constant. If you claim to love someone and then give up on them when times get hard. You never loved them to begin with. Be honest with yourself. Be truthful to those around you. That is not an easy path. But it is much better than lying and hurting everyone around you. There are consequences to your actions. It is much too easy to blame others and to have that victim mentality.
Which brings me back to – a person cannot change unless they choose to.
Forgive the one who hurts you, not because they deserve it, but so you can move on. It will set you free. Love and light to all.